Dangers of dating a man going through a divorce, dating a man who is separated but not yet divorced?
JennyS on April 14, at 3: He moved in with me. As he goes through the process of separation, he will likely need to visit and converse with his wife.
Or she was too controlling, or she took him to the cleaners, or she wrecked his family, OR — and this is a real teller — he never saw it coming. I chalked that one up to nervousness. I dont want to just quit and throw the towel on our relationship, but I dont want to grow false hopes that he will be one day divorced.
Our last breakup, he decided to put a ring on my finger, even though his wife is still pissing around with the divorce. But, IMHO, he might be missing out on a really great girl who is emotionally available and ready to date again.
Think of it this way, in every relationship, you eventually talk about exes — this one just may be a bit more, well, significant.
Some women are OK with serving as a rebound as long as they get something from the deal, but many women are not. In totally traumatized by the separated man I was dating.
Odds are this person knows exactly what he or she is looking for in a relationship, and will be very honest about it. I have a friend who has been dating a guy for a year and they are in love.
Of course we did not intend to start dating before his separation, but it kind of just happened and we fell for one another.
Has he said he wants a divorce right after the year is up? Though there are multiple variations on the theme, there is one way in which they all are similar: Or it could be she has been separated years ago.
Cyndi Patouhas on September 18, at 7: Beware of rebound If he cannot provide a good answer for why he's dating prior to the finalization of the divorce, just beware that you may be his rebound. Evan — I think you hit the nail right on the head.