He slept with someone else when we were dating
Log in or register to post comments. And our conversation went something like this:. You were either committed at the beginning or you were just getting to know each other.
You are not cheating on someone if that someone is not your girlfriend.
Would you have the capacity to forgive me for a one-time indiscretion? Go make this girl happy and give yourself a break. This makes Jason one of those rare, genuinely nice men. IDK what to do.
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Your email address will not be published. As I always say, putting our negative feelings into action is relationship destructive in that the action triggers a counter-reaction. If they had a deep early connection and he blew it by screwing around, the new girl should have the option to rethink what she is doing with him with real information, not just a shell that he thinks looks good on him.
If she does and was going to react badly over something that was not morally wrong assuming it was clear that his relationship with her after the first date was casual and non committal. Search or use up and down arrow keys to select an item. Betrayed is a strong word.
Why are people suggesting that Jason create an issue where none exists? Jason, I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself on many levels. Instead of telling you that she felt hurt that you kissed your ex, she went ahead and slept with another guy.
At some point I think Jason has to tell. As the old saying goes, let sleeping dogs lie.
Your problem is not a wrong doing on your part, but mistaken feelings of guilt that you need to think through and drop. Move on, and forget about it.
Cant imagine one good reason for sharing this information. Good call again by EMK.
We broke up with no hints of getting back together. Favorite is probably the wrong term.
I dated my ex for 16 months. I know so much more about men and how they think, and because I have a man in my life who is worth my time and effort, I have a confidence in myself that I never had before, too.
Well she never came over, and that night she slept with a guy that she used to talk to, at a party that they were both at.